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The world is full of function. Physical, spiritual, mental, sexual, etc… Some are very functional, a lot are dysfunctional. Me? I’m THISfunctional! Hi, I’m Jimmie. I’m a father, a husband, a brother, a son, a BROTHER (if you know, you know), a bartender (defacto therapist)… but, more importantly, I’m me. I’m in my mid 40’s and I’m finally ready to figure this craziness out!
Hop on board the ride! I have no destination ticket… it’s a One way passport to wherever the hell I end up and I’ll have family and friends along for the trip at times.
The world is full of function. Physical, spiritual, mental, sexual, etc… Some are very functional, a lot are dysfunctional. Me? I’m THISfunctional! Hi, I’m Jimmie. I’m a father, a husband, a brother, a son, a BROTHER (if you know, you know), a bartender (defacto therapist)… but, more importantly, I’m me. I’m in my mid 40’s and I’m finally ready to figure this craziness out!
Hop on board the ride! I have no destination ticket… it’s a One way passport to wherever the hell I end up and I’ll have family and friends along for the trip at times.
Episodes

Jun 16, 2021
The Big Gay BFA Pride-isode!
Jun 16, 2021
Jun 16, 2021
1hr 14 min
Today we're talking about PRIDE! This SHOULD'VE been a 2 part episode, but... well... it just flowed so well and needs to be heard in all it's glory in one sitting! We discuss our own stories, tell the stories of others and bring some fun and also seriousness to this beautiful thing we call LOVE IS LOVE! Have pride in all you do... gay or not, you're amazing and you deserve to let your freak flag fly!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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Follow us on Instagram at:
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

Jun 9, 2021
Please Allow Us To Re-Introduce Us (Part-2)
Jun 9, 2021
Jun 9, 2021
30 min
Today on The BFA Show, we just talk about... US… AGAIN! Part 2 of our reintroduction! We ask each other questions, we answer and it’s ALL for you, our dear listeners to get to know us a little bit better! We love you more than friends!

Jun 3, 2021
Please Allow Us To Re-Introduce Us (Part-1)
Jun 3, 2021
Jun 3, 2021
55 min
Today on The BFA Show, we just talk about... US! We ask each other questions, we answer and it’s ALL for you, our dear listeners to get to know us a little bit better! We love you more than friends!

May 26, 2021
I Agree... To Not Be A Dick To Myself
May 26, 2021
May 26, 2021
1hr 44 sec
This week we’re taking about a life changing concept that, if followed, you’ll magically find yourself happier, guaranteed! We heard about this book “The Four Agreements” from @seanwwhalen and @thegoldensax on their podcast “The Sean and Sax Show”, and... HOLY SHIT has it caused an incredible mental shift! We also talked about learning and taking lessons from others as we run down a list for a happy relationship from our amazing friend @keepfighting.celeste where she gives 10 basic rules for a happy marriage, but the principals can be applied to ANY relationship and especially ourselves! We can’t wait for y’all to hear this and as always, we love you more than friends! BFA!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

May 17, 2021
Pretty (WHOAH) Man!
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
52 min
This week we’re talking SEX WORK! We find out what this dorky duo would do for sexy work and why! We give each other stripper names, we talk about shaving genitals with our new @smoothmyballs shaver and we tease our upcoming Vegas show with our GORGEOUS friend @liandramaree! We have some BIG plans with her and you WON’T want to miss the amazingly fun times ahead! Oh, and... as always, we love you more than friends! BFA!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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Follow us on Instagram at:
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins
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May 5, 2021
When I Think About Me, I Touch Myself
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
58 min
May is Mental Health Awareness Month... So, it's no surprise that it's also National Masturbation Month and WE'RE TALKIN' ABOUT IT! Why is there such a taboo around giving yourself the lovin' that you deserve? How does it effect your mood, your interactions with others and most importantly... with yourself? We believe that self love MOST DEFINITELY should include LOVING YOURSELF! Get out there and get to know yourself, you dirty little freaks! We love you more than friends
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

Apr 21, 2021
Excuse me...DoYou Validate (Me)?
Apr 21, 2021
Apr 21, 2021
1hr 17 min
This is a long one, but it's SUPER IMPORTANT!!! SELF LOVE! SELF LOVE! SELF LOVE!! Why do we seek others approval? Why do we NEED to fee like we matter to others? We don't know, but we DO know that it's no f*ckin' bueno! Join us on this exploration and explanation of why it's a good Idea to "sweep it under the rug" and get back to basics of loving you, for you and ONLY YOU! We love you more than friend
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

Apr 7, 2021
Bucket And F*ck It Lists
Apr 7, 2021
Apr 7, 2021
52 min
This week we’re talking BUCKET LISTS and F*CK IT LISTS!! We reveal listener and our own bucket lists. We also talk about the the celebs we’d like to f*ck AND some real life crush action! Let us know what you think! And as always, we love you more than friends! BFA!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

Mar 24, 2021
Did Fight Club Predict The Future?
Mar 24, 2021
Mar 24, 2021
1hr 6 min
On this weeks F*CKIN' AWESOME episode, we're talking about outside validation. Why do we NEEEEED to have other peoples approval to live a happy life? Why isn't the love that we SHOULD have for ourselves enough? We discuss all of this and tie it back to FIGHT CLUB! If you watch the movie AFTER listening to this episode, you'll see what we mean...
We NEED YOUR HELP! CALL TO ACTION!! Jimmie got dared to shave his body hair into an “orangutan bikini”... so, @manscaped, help a homie out!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins

Mar 17, 2021
I Didn't Choose The Fetish Life... And It SHOWS!
Mar 17, 2021
Mar 17, 2021
55 min
This week we’re talking FETISHES!! Listen in to find out how boring our sex life is compared to some of you beautiful freaks out there!! Love always, BFA!
We NEED YOUR HELP! CALL TO ACTION!! Jimmie got dared to shave his body hair into an “orangutan bikini”... so, @manscaped, help a homie out!
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Intro Music: "So Bent" by Better Life Band
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Follow us on Instagram at:
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@thebfa_show
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@truly_hellbent
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@trueloveperk
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On Facebook at:
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Jimmie Trulove
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April Perkins
